You’re worried that when you transition from a working woman to a stay-at-home mom you’ll lose part of yourself. The myth that your authentic self will diminish when you become a stay-at-home mom is far from the truth. Many opportunities will become available and the transition can be seamless and positive. Approach this new chapter of your life with an optimistic mindset and inlay new habits. Here are some tips for the transition to being a stay-at-home mom.
Stay Social
When you spend the workday at home, it’s important you spend time outside of the house at the end of the day. Keep a well-balanced social calendar, where you and your friends can enjoy fun activities away from the family. For example, create a weekly meeting time and activity that you can enjoy with your closest group of pals. Additionally, plan social time during your day to ward off feelings of monotony. You can join a mom’s club, playgroup or a weekly kids activity where you and your little ones can be out and about.
Supplement the Family Income
You’ll likely need to supplement the family income in a way that pairs well with your new role of a stay-at-home parent. You should seek out opportunities that allow you flexibility in hours and location, while still providing solid pay. Amway is an excellent company for creating your own hours, engaging in direct selling and controlling the various elements of your business. Don’t be deterred from seeking an opportunity with this company by listening to the Amway pyramid scheme myth that is circling. The company is legitimate and the work allows you to be a profitable entrepreneur who can seek ambition and reward without sacrificing family time.
Spousal Support and Connection
Be especially mindful that the transition you’re making from work to home could put a strain on your relationship with your spouse. The new arrangement could make your spouse feel like they’re missing out on valuable time with the kids and make you feel slight resentment and jealousy of their work-life. Create space and time for the two of you to enjoy one another, even though it may seem like there isn’t any. Splurge on a special night out where you can have fun together every now and then. Try a new activity together that will help you both grow and bond. Real Simple and Family Life have extra tips on how you and your spouse can keep the spark alive.
Prioritize Self Care
While you’re working at home, you will be giving so much of yourself to your kids and your family. There will be days when you feel mentally, physically and emotionally drained. It is important you maintain a healthy relationship with yourself and show yourself love. Find ways you can engage in self-care, where you’re able to recharge and reflect in a way that is positive and fulfilling. Make arrangements for someone else to watch the kids for an hour and go for a walk, sit and read in a cafe, meditate, talk with a friend, take a yoga class or spend time in nature. There are many types of self-care and also a number of apps available to support your self-care habits.
Your move from working mom to stay-at-home mom will be fantastic when you take into consideration the ways in which your life and your needs will shift. With organization, attention, and care you can be the best you for your family during and after the transition.
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